What’s Up with the Flavour? Getting Better Advice on Singleness Using Cosmological Brains, Part 1: How to Get Help When You Need Help
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If your relationship is going through a rough patch, or if you are considering a break up, February 14 is a good day to think about taking it to the next level.
There are tips on how to find peace with singleness in this comic. One tip? It’s important to have a list of people you can call upon in times of need. The story can be read here.
Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status): Talking to your partner about forming a relationship contract and how to talk to them about it
These conversation starters can help couples get at the heart of their values, including how to deal with conflict, attitudes toward gender roles and their relationship with money. A question to ask: Is there anything that you (or I) are not willing to give up once we’re married? You can read the story here.
When we think about romance, many of us have a specific script in mind. Two people fall in love and get married. It doesn’t work for everyone.
If you’re curious about non-monogamy, the first step is talking to your partner about the possibility of opening up your relationship. Tell your partner why you’re interested. Maybe you want to know your sexuality in a straight relationship. Maybe you’re figuring out your gender and want to form romantic relationships with people who are doing the same. It would be great to have more sexual partners. Read the story here.
Writer Mandy Len Catron explains how couples can create a “relationship contract” to better express their needs and work together. The contract should cover expectations for day-to-day life as well as intimacy and personal and professional goals. The story can be read here.
Source: Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status)
Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status): Avoiding the aftermath of a breakup by not scrolling through dating profiles on your phone
Tired of swiping through dating profiles on your phone? Meet people in real life is something that may be time to do. A sexuality and relationship educator offers advice on how to find new people, strike up conversations and move on from a love interest if the vibe is not there. Try to go places alone and not use your phone. You’ll appear more present and open if you’re not scrolling. Listen to the episode here.
Ending a relationship is tough, no matter how sure you are of your decision. Dating coach Damona Hoffman walks us through the breakup process and explains what you can do to help minimize conflict. For example, if you aren’t legally married, it’s still smart to get in writing how you plan to split up everything from pets to property in the event of a breakup. The story can be read here.
Theresa Viera says that everyone should consider a prenuptial agreement. It’s a legal contract between spouses that lays out how to deal with money if they divorce. Here’s how to discuss it with your partner and decide whether it’s right for you. You can read the story here.
Source: Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status)
How to Flirt If You’re Rejection: A Conversation with a Body Language Activated to Enhance Sexual Instability
Flirting can be scary. If you are rejected, what should you do? According to dating experts, reframing that mindset is key to an enjoyable flirting experience. Instead of looking at their attractiveness, try to look at their body language. Is it friendly? Is it open? These will be the people whom it’ll be the most fun to talk to, regardless of whether you end up clicking. The story can be read here.
The digital story was edited by Malaka Gharib. The visual editor is Beck Harlan. We’d love to hear from you. We can leave a message at 202-216-9823 or email [email protected].